Wow, Aaron. Thank you so much for taking the time to provide such a thoughtful answer. I agree 100% with everything you said. As I have said to Ritchie Herron (detransitioner), I do take some solace in seeing that at least some people who embark on these medical and social changes, whether they are ultimately at peace with their choices …
Wow, Aaron. Thank you so much for taking the time to provide such a thoughtful answer. I agree 100% with everything you said. As I have said to Ritchie Herron (detransitioner), I do take some solace in seeing that at least some people who embark on these medical and social changes, whether they are ultimately at peace with their choices or not, can end up well adjusted and relatively happy down the line. I certainly feel the way about you and “other Aaron.” (I’ve listened to your podcast many times.). :)
Still, I will do my best to encourage my daughter to be comfortable in her body, and to try living in it undisguised (I don’t care how she dresses, but binding and pretending to be male doesn’t allow her to freely experience living as a female in this world.)
I agree that the therapy world is not currently equipped to deal with these issues (although some are trying).
And I agree that ruminating is a big part of the problem as is commiserating with other young dysphoric individuals.
And I agree that “T” is one powerful drug that easily transforms female bodies to appear male so no rush (but 18 year olds don’t really get that concept - which is part of the reason they are not equipped to make these life-altering decisions!).
Wow, Aaron. Thank you so much for taking the time to provide such a thoughtful answer. I agree 100% with everything you said. As I have said to Ritchie Herron (detransitioner), I do take some solace in seeing that at least some people who embark on these medical and social changes, whether they are ultimately at peace with their choices or not, can end up well adjusted and relatively happy down the line. I certainly feel the way about you and “other Aaron.” (I’ve listened to your podcast many times.). :)
Still, I will do my best to encourage my daughter to be comfortable in her body, and to try living in it undisguised (I don’t care how she dresses, but binding and pretending to be male doesn’t allow her to freely experience living as a female in this world.)
I agree that the therapy world is not currently equipped to deal with these issues (although some are trying).
And I agree that ruminating is a big part of the problem as is commiserating with other young dysphoric individuals.
And I agree that “T” is one powerful drug that easily transforms female bodies to appear male so no rush (but 18 year olds don’t really get that concept - which is part of the reason they are not equipped to make these life-altering decisions!).
Thanks again for the thorough answer.